Open to Possibilities

We’ve all heard stories of one ‘best friend’ that has more feeling than just friendship. I have never seen this situation be successful.  If it were, I could not think of a better way to address this predicament than the way Admirer #3 did it.   A classy love note that honestly shares what you’re open to, without sounding needy is the way to go! 

Admirer #3 is personable. He doesn’t damage his credibility like the other admirers do. Their vague, colloquial wording weakens any point they bring up. The other two sound like they know you from a distance which implies they like the thought of you, rather than the real you. Although actions do say a lot about a person, you can’t know what a person is like until you’ve spent time with them, laughed with them, even hurt with them.  It is easy to progress into a relationship if you have a history that let’s you know it can work.

And, may I compliment the object.  Teddy Bear?  Yikes. The chocolates are a step up, but a single rose is simple, classy, and not overbearing.  It’s an offer:  an offer that will most likely be taken up.